‘A testament to her love of God and neighbor alike’

Betty Bisel
Betty Bisel holds a Kappa Kappa Gamma composite from 2002-2003.
Collegian | Josh Hypes

Betty Bisel, 96, lives on Summit Street in a small, red cottage hidden beneath the shade of several oak trees and marked by several small plastic lawn geese. Inside, the house’s age is hidden by trinkets and antiques from a bygone era. The living room is reminiscent of a 1960s suburban home with white curtains yellowed with age, a burgundy shag carpet, and floral pink wallpaper.

“I’m not a hoarder, I’m a collector,” Bisel said with pride. 

Bisel has lived a full life traveling the world, raising her children, and working at Hillsdale College for more than 20 years before retiring in 2008. 

Bisel moved to Hillsdale with her children and husband Walter in 1959 and worked at the old Sears store on West Carleton Street for 21 years until it closed. Bisel then applied to Hillsdale College, which was a long shot since there were no open postings. On the same day, she went to donate blood with a friend who invited Bisel to join her on a trip to the Holy Land.

“She turned around and she said to me, ‘Why don’t you sign up and go with me?’” Bisel said. “I was like, ‘Okay!’ So we signed up to take this trip. And then when I came home that day, they called me from the college and offered me a job at the Dow.”

Bisel delayed her employment at the college for a chance “to walk where Jesus walked.” She said in Israel she saw the sights, took communion, and sung hymns atop Mount Zion. Bisel said visiting the Holy Land was a transformative experience for her faith.

“I said every minister should go and take that trip,” said Bisel.

After her trip, Bisel returned to Hillsdale as a receptionist for the Dow Leadership Center in 1985. There, she left an impression on many students and visitors.

One alum, Michael Fanning ’92, mentioned Bisel in a letter to former President George Roche as someone who he valued as a constant presence in the Dow Center. 

Hanging proudly in Bisel’s living room is a watercolor painting of an Italian village titled “Amalfi Drive.” Bisel purchased the painting when it was on display in the Dow Center during an exhibit for Professor of Art Sam Knecht. Bisel said she was transfixed by its beauty, reminding  her of a trip she had taken to Italy with her husband when she was “a younger woman.”  

One day, while she was admiring the painting, Knecht approached her from behind and asked if she would like to buy it. Bisel said she was shocked that he was willing to sell it and couldn’t help but place a bid. Knecht sold her the piece for $250.

Bisel worked at the Dow Center for 10 years before retiring. She would not stay retired for long, however. 

While attending the funeral of Nancy Manley, a former Simpson Residence house director,  Bisel ran into former Dean of Men John Coonradt.

“I said to John Coonradt, ‘If you ever need any help, call me.’ He called me,” said Bisel.

Bisel served as the Simpson house director for the spring semester of 1998. She worked with Dean of Men Aaron Peterson and Director of Health Services Brock Lutz while they were still Resident Assistants. 

Lutz said he fondly remembers working with Bisel. 

“My memories of Betty were how sweet she was and took everything in stride, even though Simpson boys were of course Simpson boys,” Lutz said in an email. “When my car was pranked by putting 800 pounds of feed corn in my little Ford Festiva by someone from the school I was doing my student teaching at, I remember her being very amused by that.”

In 2000, Bisel was asked to move to Chi Omega by former Dean of Women Carol Ann Baker. Bisel said she remembers gathering in the living room on 9/11 to watch the T.V.

“Everyone’s eyes were glued to the T.V.,” said Bisel.

Bisel posted on her bedroom door a poster the women of Chi Omega gave her during Thanksgiving to thank her for her kindness. 

After a year at Chi Omega, Bisel was asked to move to Kappa Kappa Gamma sorority to serve as house director. There, she continued her tradition of helping students with a cheerful and upbeat attitude. Following her year at Kappa Kappa Gamma, she retired again until a friend she met working at the Dow offered her a part-time job working reception at the George C. Roche Sports Complex.

“My friend asked me: ‘Do You know someone who would like to work part-time at the Sports Complex?’ I said ‘I would!’” 

After seven years working at the sports complex, Bisel decided to leave to take care of her husband. 

“One morning I woke up and thought of John Wayne’s ‘A man’s gotta do what a man’s gotta do,” Bisel said. “So I called up the coach and said ‘My husband is sick and my son has cancer. I have to leave.”

Bisel returned home and took care of her husband until his death in 2013. Her son died a year later.

Throughout all these hardships, Bisel has remained a pillar in the community, according to Pastor Sean Willman of St. Paul’s Lutheran Church.

“I’ve come to find out that Betty is loved and admired by so many. College students, coworkers, peers, and friends all get the same caring and loving treatment from Betty,” Willman said in an email. “She’s a blessing to our community at St. Paul’s, and her faithfulness is a testament to her love of God and neighbor alike.”

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