Do you have any advice for young couples at Hillsdale?

Christina Lamb Chakalova, art: “My advice to young couples is to find someone who you know that you can build a life with, together. Everything my husband and I have achieved; we did as a team. This has been the glue that binds us together, along with faith and love for our children and families.” 

Jason Peters, English: “If the person you’re dating prefers soccer to basketball, get some help. Both of you.” 

Buddy Moorehouse, documentary: “The four years (or so) that you spend in college are going to be the most impactful and important four years of your life. Make the most of them and take advantage of every opportunity. Do fun things as a couple while still keeping your individual identity. And savor every minute of it, because you’ll be thinking back on these days for the rest of your life.” 

Angelica Pytel, biology: “Support each other with love and kindness. Never demean your partner to lift yourself up. And one of you should learn how to bake bread.” 

Kelli Kazmier, chemistry: “One important thing is to figure out how to fight fairly. I assume this will look different for different couples, but everyone should feel like they are able to honestly communicate their feelings and needs. It isn’t always the case that every dispute can be totally resolved, but sometimes is it enough to be heard. Early on it was important for us to conclude our fights with, ‘I love you more than this.’” 

Brad Birzer, history: “When you know, you most definitely know.  There’s no hesitation, no questioning.  You meet the right person and you just know.”